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No Cheering Allowed

When you go to a youth baseball game, there are certain sounds you expect to hear. Birds chirping, the ping of the metal bat, kids having fun.....and parents cheering on their children. Agree?

I was surprised to learn that cheering for the players and providing positive encouragement is frowned upon in Holliston. Really?

So what is considered acceptable at youth baseball games these days? Should there by a sign that says "don't cheer?"  Should we pretend we're in the library and say "Ssshhhh" if someone is too loud?

It's called having passion for the game. It's called being actively involved in your child's sports and routing on all the kids–no matter which team they are on. It's called being happy when someone makes a good play.

If you ask me, more parents should have that kind of passion. Can someone please tell me what's acceptable these days? Oooh, I'm sorry, was that too loud?

Ray Hart

7:47 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

PC crowd run amuck again. cheer for good plays by all players, your child, her teammates and players on the other team. It is not the library!

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Rachel Kagno

8:26 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

Thank you for validating my thoughts Ray!

Erika Bailey

9:47 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

I have never gotten that vibe from any of the sports games I have attended in town. Did someone say this to you? It's hard to imagine people feeling that their shouldn't be cheering. I'm one of those moms who embarrasses her kids with my cheering.

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Rachel Kagno

12:47 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Erika, i cannot give any details, but let's just say some people just need to chill out a little. I'll leave it at that.

KirstenMc

10:15 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

Last time I checked, baseball isn't golf. Right? I shall cheer away.

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Barbara Daly

11:00 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

Cheer on, Rachel, and I will cheer along with you! One thing I personally do not like is when parents yell at the umps who, at my son's level, are high school students learning how to do their job. Not cool. Cut them some slack. Positivity, encouragement and support, however, are always cool in my book.

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Rachel Kagno

12:44 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

I agree Barb. Thanks for commenting!

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Jodi Colman

6:55 am on Sunday, May 27, 2012

I'm with you rach, The parent should scream loud! Be proud of your kids, but please remember that They are just kids. Nothing I hate more then when parents mumble bad remarks about their kids. What ever happened to having fun! Keep it up Rach!

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Barbara Daly

11:20 am on Sunday, May 27, 2012

To push the issue further, I was teaching the kids at my church this morning and was talking about having spirit by encouaraging others. I used the example of my son, who is great at encouraging his teammates on his baseball team. A little girl raised her hand and said that they are not allowed to do that on her team. WHAT???? Aren't we supposed to be teaching our kids how to work together, how to be good sports?

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Rachel Kagno

7:42 am on Monday, May 28, 2012

That's crazy. Yes, I gotta believe most parents are teaching their kids to support their teammates. What I have encountered is more like small town politics. Would you believe a parent from one of our opposing teams called "the league" and complained that my husband was too loud during one of our games? So pathetic.

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Julie Damigella

4:45 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Well.... this person had better not come to a 5th & 6th grade Girls Lacrosse game. As our coach put it, we have the best "cheering section" every week!

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Rachel Kagno

9:14 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

We weren't told who it was who made the complaint, but I'm a smart girl. I have a pretty good idea. So petty. And that's all I'm gonna say about that. Next topic!

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Alissa Johnson

8:54 am on Friday, November 16, 2012

I was just told on Tuesday no to cheer anymore by my sons hockey coach. I said no good job no go team. He said no say nothing. I said it was my right to cheer politely and walked away. The coach then screamed "get back here I'm not done with you". This was in front of a ton of parents and kids. He should have called or emailed. Totally uncalled for and embarrassing. He then said he was benching my son for the season. I can't believe he threatened my 9 year old. I do not cheer rude things and I say good job to both teams. I shake parents hands from opposing teams and say great game. Hockey is not golf. What will he do during playoffs when people have cow bells. What do I do?

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Rachel Kagno

12:02 pm on Friday, November 16, 2012

Alissa, sounds like you have much bigger issues that not being able to cheer. Without knowing all the details, sounds like your hockey coach was completely inappropriate on a variety of levels. You might want to take it up with the league president, if there is such a thing. Good luck!

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